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Suit Yourself™ International Magazine #52: Guide To Love 4 Announce Your Intentions

  

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Suit Yourself™ International Magazine #52

GUIDE TO LOVE Continues.....

Section 4:

  Announce Your Intentions

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Suit Yourself™ International's GUIDE TO LOVE

TABLE OF CONTENTS

Introduction 

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-49.html

The Awakening

 https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-50.html

Understand Your Needs

 https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-50.html

Find A Common Interest  

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-51.html

Announce Your Intentions  

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-52.html

The Hunt Or The Chase

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-53.html

Make An Impression

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-54.html

Offer Your Services

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-55.html

Come When Called

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-56.html

Mind Your Manners

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-57.html

Make A Move

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-58.html

The Attachment

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-59.html

Lay Down Ground Rules

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-60.html

The Lost Cause Impossible Situation

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-61.html

You're Never Too Young Or Too Old

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-62.html

Never Forget; Get Your Picture Taken Together

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-63.html

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 I hope this series is enjoyable and useful to you!

Bisous!

Debra Spencer

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  4 Announce Your Intentions

 

Announce   

your intentions.  

 

Don't try to hedge your bets  

by being curious   

without stating your intentions   

because nobody will see you as trustworthy.   


 

If you don't know what you're doing   

consciously,    

why should they step in that mess?    


 

Stick to social events   

 

where looking over   

 

potential choices   

 

and what's on offer   

 

is part of the ritual,  

 

e.g. dances,   

 

public gatherings,   

 

local events,    

 

etc.    

That's why these are called "mixers";    

 

you can sit on the bleachers    

and watch the show   

without having to adopt one,     

and everyone attending usually understands    

that these are the rules.   


 

Of course, when you're serious     

and have made up your mind    

 

don't make any announcement about this to others without talking it over first  

 

because at that point, any announcement is not yours to make.  

 

Welcome to Couple World Rules.     

 

If you announce this to others without discussion, it's bragging, not Relationship   

because it doesn't take the other person's wishes into consideration. 

 

Decent relationships, by definition, 

 

take the other person's wishes  

 

into consideration,   

 

thus showing respect for them,   

 

and anyone in their right mind treated otherwise  

 

should drop you   

 

like a hot potato.   

 

Nobody wants to be treated   

like they're a trophy.   


 

 


 

 

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Thanks for reading.
 
Best Wishes,
Debra Spencer


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