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 I hope this series is enjoyable and useful to you!

Bisous!

Debra Spencer

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  5 The Hunt Or The Chase

Believe it or not, this is where the search really begins   

this is where you roll up your sleeves   

and go to work.    

You may have "found someone" but they may not feel the same way.    

Or you may want one sort of relationship and they may want another.   

You should get out of any relationship at this point   

if you discover,     

through discussion or otherwise,      

that the other person will not be able to meet your most basic needs (and hopefully, you know what these are).   

Save yourself time, and save them angst,   

and start over.    

You are only at very early beginnings here,   

and it is far easier now than later.    

Your awareness    

of any difficulties now   

will not change.   

Don't settle,    

and don't hope they'll "improve later".    

They won't   

and neither will you.     

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Best Wishes,
Debra Spencer

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