Back

Suit Yourself™ International Magazine #54: Guide To Love 6 Make An Impression

  

****

Suit Yourself™ International Magazine #54

GUIDE TO LOVE Continues.....

Section 6:

  Make An Impression 

****

The full TOC and Introduction can be found here: https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-49.html 

If you're not already a subscriber, please sign up! Don't Miss Out On LOVE!

****

Having trouble viewing this? Try here: https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-54.html
For the Guide To Love Introduction & TOC:  https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-49.html
Previous articles can be found in our Library: https://suityourself.international/libraryindex.html
and in the Magazine Archives: https://suityourself.international/appanage/index.php?_a=newsletter

Upon request, reprint permission and an addendum of substantiating resources are available for all articles. When requesting reprint permission or addenda, please include the issue date and full issue title. All articles are copyright © Debra Spencer, Suit Yourself ™ International. All rights reserved. ISSN 2474-820X.
 

*******

*******

Suit Yourself™ International's GUIDE TO LOVE

TABLE OF CONTENTS

Introduction 

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-49.html

The Awakening

 https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-50.html

Understand Your Needs

 https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-50.html

Find A Common Interest  

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-51.html

Announce Your Intentions  

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-52.html

The Hunt Or The Chase

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-53.html

Make An Impression

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-54.html

Offer Your Services

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-55.html

Come When Called

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-56.html

Mind Your Manners

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-57.html

Make A Move

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-58.html

The Attachment

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-59.html

Lay Down Ground Rules

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-60.html

The Lost Cause Impossible Situation

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-61.html

You're Never Too Young Or Too Old

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-62.html

Never Forget; Get Your Picture Taken Together

https://suityourself.international/appanage/magazine-63.html

****** 

****** 

 I hope this series is enjoyable and useful to you!

Bisous!

Debra Spencer

****** 

  6 Make An Impression

 

Make An Impression.   

As Mary Poppins said, "Never judge things by their appearance."    

Whenever you want to make an impression,   

you usually want to make a good one,   

because you're intention is to be accepted.   

If you just want to be noticed,   

that's a different story,    

because in that case, you're wanting recognition,    

not necessarily acceptance.   


It's one thing to appear approachable,    

it's another thing entirely to stand out in a crowd.    

These are very different goals  

and intentions;    

don't confuse them.     

All of this is, after all,    

supposed to be fun.    


Making an impression    

is not as obvious    

or as easy    

as it seems.    


Sometimes, familiar approaches   

don't work in this situation;    

you have to improvise.    


Men usually mention or display their incomes,    

while women are instead watching the man's manners    

and how often he does laundry.     


It's more productive to consider that making a successful impression   

depends on whether or not both of you can meet each other's needs.  

You won't discover this complementarity    

 if you're only intent on finding out whether or not the other person can meet your needs.     


You won't find out if someone is grateful for what you have to offer until you offer it!    

The most loveable people are those who pay enough attention to what we appear to need that they can then offer it to us;   

 in other words, they're interested in helping us solve our problems, not theirs, and within their own means.  


This may seem easier to do when there is lots of money,    

but expensive inappropriate inconsiderate impersonal gifts are a total waste because they're useless.  


It is not easy to give appropriately 

but it's well worth the effort.    


Nobody needs more waste.    

Water the plant only as much as it needs to grow safely, and no more.   

 

 

****** 

****** 

Thanks for reading.
 
Best Wishes,
Debra Spencer


***
***
FAIR USE NOTICE:
This site contains copyrighted material the use of which has not always been specifically authorized by the copyright owner. I am making such material available in my efforts to advance understanding of issues of environmental and humanitarian significance. I believe this constitutes a 'fair use' of any such copyrighted material as provided for in section 107 of the US Copyright Law. In accordance with Title 17 U.S.C. Section 107, the material on this site is distributed without profit to those who have expressed a prior interest in receiving the included information for research and educational purposes. For more information go to: http://www.law.cornell.edu/uscode/17/107.shtml. If you wish to use copyrighted material from this site for purposes of your own that go beyond 'fair use', you must obtain permission from the copyright owner.

***
***
***

Suit Yourself™ International Guide To Love All Content is © Debra Spencer, Suit Yourself International. Technical Library FAQ Index ISSN 2474-820X. All Rights Reserved. Please do not reproduce in part of in whole without express written consent. Thank you.

****
****

 

All Content is © Debra Spencer, Suit Yourself™ International. Technical Library FAQ Index ISSN 2474-820X. All Rights Reserved. Please do not reproduce in part or in whole without express written consent. Thank you.
Top
All Content is ©2019 Debra Spencer, Appanage™at www.suityourself.international Suit Yourself ™ International, 120 Pendleton Point, Islesboro Island, Maine, 04848, USA 44n31 68w91 Technical Library FAQ Index ISSN 2474-820X. All Rights Reserved. Please do not reproduce in part or in whole without express written consent. Thank you.

Read Our Magazine! A Fortune Cookie Once A Week.

Enter your e-mail address to receive our magazine.
Email
Country
Please enter a valid email address.
Email address already subscribed.
All Content is ©2019 Debra Spencer, Appanage™at www.suityourself.international Suit Yourself ™ International, 120 Pendleton Point, Islesboro Island, Maine, 04848, USA 44n31 68w91 Technical Library FAQ Index ISSN 2474-820X. All Rights Reserved. Please do not reproduce in part or in whole without express written consent. Thank you.
Success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm. ~ Winston Churchill