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 I hope this series is enjoyable and useful to you!

Bisous!

Debra Spencer

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9 Mind Your Manners  

One of the reasons people use dating service sieves    

is to find people like themselves who value similar things.    

Yet the most enduring relationships are those involving very different people,    

opposites, who are complementary.  

Making a successful impression is not obvious or easy;   

ultimately, it depends on whether or not both of you can meet each other's needs,    

which is something you both have to discover.    

While it's unusual for people to change social levels,    

it's not unheard of,   

as attested to     

in stories like Pygmalion, My Fair Lady, and Pretty Woman.     

Age differences   

are more easily surmountable,   

as demonstrated  

in such movies as Harold and Maude starring Ruth Gordon and Bud Cort, 40 Carets, starring Liv Ullman, and Murphy's Romance, starring James Garner and Sally Field. 

Some attributes are inherited,   

some earned,  

some acquired,     

some reworked.     

The important thing to remember   

is that a great deal of what makes us who we are is software.   

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Best Wishes,
Debra Spencer

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